Dr. Lena Agree, JD, PsyD – Licensed Psychologist and AssociatesDr. Lena Agree, JD, PsyD – Licensed Psychologist and Associates

Anxiety Archive: Expert Tips, Coping & Healing Strategies

Raising Secure, Resilient Children: Child Psychology Services and Practical Parenting Strategies

How Attachment Patterns Sabotage Happiness – and How to Break FreeRaising Secure, Resilient Children: Child Psychology Services and Practical Parenting Strategies

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Helping children grow into emotionally secure, developmentally on-track young people takes three things: clear knowledge of child development, hands-on parenting skills you can use every day, and timely access to supportive services when you need them. This article breaks down what “happy and healthy” looks like across emotional, developmental, and relationship areas; explains key mechanisms like emotion regulation and attachment; and gives practical, age‑appropriate strategies parents can start using now. You’ll find signs to watch for at different stages, step‑by‑step approaches to discipline and communication, and guidance on when individual or family therapy can help. We also map common therapy approaches — from play to talk-based work — to developmental stages, and describe how specialized support for high‑achieving families and…

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Schedule Your Appointment Today

Schedule Your Appointment Today

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Schedule Your Therapy Appointment Today in Birmingham MI for Personalized Mental Health Care Finding and scheduling the right therapy appointment can be overwhelming, but clear steps and practical expectations make the process far easier. This article explains how to schedule your therapy appointment in Birmingham MI, what to expect at your first session, which services you can book, and how costs and insurance typically factor into planning care. You will learn step-by-step booking instructions, a brief tour of common service types like individual and couples therapy, preparation guidance for intake, and how confidentiality and personalized treatment planning work. The guidance emphasizes practical outcomes—how therapy helps improve relationships, emotional regulation, and daily functioning—while pointing toward local options for personalized care. Read…

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The Difference Between Coping and Healing – and Why it Matters

The Difference Between Coping and Healing – and Why it Matters

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Many people come to therapy believing that if they can just cope better, they’ll feel better. But coping and healing are not the same. Coping helps you survive, but healing helps you change. Coping manages the symptoms of pain, while healing transforms the source of it. Both are valuable, but they function differently. In this post, we’ll explore the crucial difference between coping and healing, why it matters for your emotional growth, and how therapy can help you move beyond survival toward genuine, lasting well-being. What Is Coping? Coping strategies are the things we do to manage distress in the moment. They don’t necessarily change the root cause of our pain, but they make it more bearable and keep us afloat when…

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The Negative Effects of Technology on Teens – and How to Help

The Negative Effects of Technology on Teens – and How to Help

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Written by Aleena Hellebyuck, MA, CAADC-DP Learn how social media, screen time, and online culture are shaping your teen’s emotional health and what you can do to help them build balance, resilience, and self-esteem in a digital world. The Digital World Teens Are Growing Up In Technology is woven into nearly every aspect of modern teenage life. From smartphones and social media to gaming and streaming platforms, adolescents are living in a world that’s always online. While digital tools provide connection and creativity, they can also contribute to anxiety, comparison, and overstimulation,  all of which affect emotional well-being and development. As a therapist, I often hear parents say, “I don’t even recognize my child anymore — they seem anxious, withdrawn, or distracted…

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Are you stressed out? Here are 10 Signs that you might be.

Are you stressed out? Here are 10 Signs that you might be.

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Written by Jessica Guobis, MA, CAADA-DP As a therapist, one of the things I hear most often is some version of this sentence: “I didn’t realize how stressed I was until I finally slowed down.” Sometimes people don’t notice until they’re sitting in my office, describing their week, and suddenly connecting the dots between headaches, irritability, restless nights, and constant tension. Other times they come in convinced that their “problem” is laziness, relationship conflict, or a lack of motivation when, in reality, stress is quietly pulling the strings in the background. Stress is sneaky like that. We expect it to look like long nights at work, panic attacks, or obvious overwhelm. But often, it disguises itself in subtle everyday ways…

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How Your Attachment Patterns Sabotage Your Happiness (and How to Break Free)

How Your Attachment Patterns Sabotage Your Happiness (and How to Break Free)

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If you struggle with feelings of depression, flatness, anxiety, anger, or other unpleasant symptoms, you have your attachment system to blame. Attachment is an innate, unconscious system that tells you from infancy, that you must stay close to your your parents because you need them to protect you from physical danger, illness and overwhelming emotional distress (Bowlby 1988). This is what makes little kids cling to their moms in public places. They just know, “Mom keeps me alive.” This isn’t learned behavior; it’s more like an instinct. It gets “turned on” in response to real or perceived threats to your survival and well-being, such as when you’re tired, hungry, or frightened, or separated from your parents.  The problem is, it…

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How a Diagnosis Can Prevent You from Getting Better

How a Diagnosis Can Prevent You from Getting Better

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If you’ve been struggling with symptoms of anxiety, depression, or other mental health concerns, you may have tried to diagnose yourself in an effort to understand what’s going on. This can be helpful, but it doesn’t help you understand why you feel this way. In the realm of mental health, a diagnosis fails to provide enough information and can even be misleading. Psychiatric diagnoses are labels determined by a list of symptoms that are mostly behavioral, meaning, they describe things you’re doing or not doing (like sleeping, or eating). Most diagnoses require a threshold number of symptoms, such as four out of nine. This means a single diagnosis can encompass many – even dozens – of different experiences (American Psychiatric…

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