Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a structured psychotherapy that uses guided bilateral stimulation to help the brain reprocess traumatic or distressing memories, reducing the emotional charge and updating maladaptive beliefs. The technique pairs a focused memory or image with bilateral stimulation—typically therapist-guided eye movements, tactile taps, or auditory tones—to engage the Adaptive Information […]
Many people come to therapy believing that if they can just cope better, they’ll feel better. But coping and healing are not the same. Coping helps you survive, but healing helps you change. Coping manages the symptoms of pain, while healing transforms the source of it. Both are valuable, but they function differently. In this post, we’ll […]
People often come to my office wishing to forgive someone, but feeling unsettled because despite their efforts, it hasn’t happened, and they are frustrated and confused. Their distress over forgiveness often brings to mind my favorite quote on the subject: My frame of mind is most peaceful. My wishes are: a modest hut, a thatched […]
