Connection is the set of interactions and felt experiences that make people feel understood, safe, and valued, while loneliness is the subjective distress that comes when meaningful connections are missing. This article explains why relationships matter for emotional and physical health and lays out evidence-informed strategies—grounded in attachment theory, mentalization, and communication science—for building trust, […]
If you struggle with feelings of depression, flatness, anxiety, anger, or other unpleasant symptoms, you have your attachment system to blame. Attachment is an innate, unconscious system that tells you from infancy, that you must stay close to your your parents because you need them to protect you from physical danger, illness and overwhelming emotional […]
Try this experiment: Place your full attention on something sexual for several minutes and then think about it for a little while. Afterwards, take notice if you seem to be more talkative. New research cited in a recent article by Elizabeth Bernstein says you will be. And, notably, it suggests that you will also be more inclined to reveal aspects of […]
