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Examining the Success Rates of EMDR Therapy: Effectiveness for PTSD, Anxiety, and Trauma Recovery

Examining the Success Rates of EMDR Therapy: Effectiveness for PTSD, Anxiety, and Trauma Recovery

November 11, 2025 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a trauma-focused psychotherapy designed to reprocess distressing memories and reduce associated symptoms through bilateral stimulation and the Adaptive Information Processing (AIP) model. This article explains what EMDR is, how it works, and why clinicians and organizations endorse it for PTSD and related conditions, while summarizing recent research trends through 2023–2025. Readers will learn the therapy’s core mechanisms, the eight phases clinicians follow, evidence-based success-rate ranges across diagnoses, and practical expectations for sessions and outcomes. We also compare EMDR to other therapies such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), explore applications for anxiety, depression, phobias, and special populations including children and high-achieving professionals, and provide actionable guidance on what to expect during treatment. Throughout, the…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: EMDR therapy · Tagged: emdr therapy, emotional reprocessing, evidence based therapy, mental health healing, nervous system regulation, ptsd treatment, trauma healing, trauma informed treatment, trauma recovery methods

Techniques for Cultivating Mindfulness: Practical Exercises and Benefits for Stress Reduction and Anxiety Management

Techniques for Cultivating Mindfulness: Practical Exercises and Benefits for Stress Reduction and Anxiety Management

November 5, 2025 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Mindfulness is the practice of intentionally bringing non-judgmental attention to the present moment, and this article describes practical techniques, mechanisms, and applications that reliably reduce stress and support anxiety management. You will learn clear definitions, evidence-informed reasons why mindfulness works (attention training, decentring, and interoception), and step-by-step exercises such as mindful breathing, body scan, mindful eating, and mindful walking. Many people struggle with persistent worry, workplace stress, or difficulty regulating emotions; applying structured mindfulness techniques offers an accessible, skill-based solution that complements therapeutic work and coaching. This guide maps scientific mechanisms to everyday practice, explains how therapies such as MBCT and MBSR fit into care pathways, and shows how mindfulness pairs with attachment- and mentalization-based approaches to deepen emotional insight….

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Mindfulness & Emotional Regulation, Resources, Self-Growth & Identity Development, Stress and Anxiety · Tagged: anxiety management, coping skills, emotional regulation, meditation practice, mental wellness, mindfulness, mindfulness exercises, relaxation techniques, stress reduction

Common Questions About Therapy and Coaching: Understanding Differences, Benefits, and How to Choose

Common Questions About Therapy and Coaching: Understanding Differences, Benefits, and How to Choose

November 5, 2025 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Many people wonder whether they need therapy, coaching, or both, and how to tell the difference in practical terms. This article defines therapy and coaching, explains how each approach works, and gives clear, actionable guidance for choosing the right service for your goals. Readers will learn the core mechanisms behind attachment- and mentalization-based therapy, the structure and outcomes typical of life and personal coaching, and how these services can be integrated for lasting change. The piece also walks through what to expect in a first therapy session, offers checklists for interviewing providers, and explains concierge-style care options as they relate to local decision-making in Birmingham, MI. Throughout, the content uses evidence-based explanations, semantic clarity (entity → relationship → entity statements),…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Resources · Tagged: benefits of coaching, benefits of therapy, choosing a therapist, coaching questions, coaching vs counseling, common questions, difference between therapy and coaching, emotional wellness support, how to choose a coach, mental health questions, mental health support options, personal growth strategies, psychotherapy guidance, therapy questions, therapy questions answered, therapy vs coaching

How Your Attachment Patterns Sabotage Your Happiness (and How to Break Free)

How Your Attachment Patterns Sabotage Your Happiness (and How to Break Free)

July 30, 2025 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

If you struggle with feelings of depression, flatness, anxiety, anger, or other unpleasant symptoms, you have your attachment system to blame. Attachment is an innate, unconscious system that tells you from infancy, that you must stay close to your your parents because you need them to protect you from physical danger, illness and overwhelming emotional distress (Bowlby 1988). This is what makes little kids cling to their moms in public places. They just know, “Mom keeps me alive.” This isn’t learned behavior; it’s more like an instinct. It gets “turned on” in response to real or perceived threats to your survival and well-being, such as when you’re tired, hungry, or frightened, or separated from your parents.  The problem is, it…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Resources, Therapy · Tagged: anxiety, anxious, anxious attachment, attachment, attachment patterns, attachment styles, attachment therapy, avoidant attachment, childhood attachment, depressed, depression, emotional bonding, emotional healing journey, emotional intimacy, healing attachment wounds, helpless, how to break attachment cycles, inner child work, love and attachment, mental health insights, mother, psychology, relationship patterns, relationship struggles, secure attachment, self awareness growth, therapy, trauma healing

How a Diagnosis Can Prevent You from Getting Better

How a Diagnosis Can Prevent You from Getting Better

July 30, 2025 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

If you’ve been struggling with symptoms of anxiety, depression, or other mental health concerns, you may have tried to diagnose yourself in an effort to understand what’s going on. This can be helpful, but it doesn’t help you understand why you feel this way. In the realm of mental health, a diagnosis fails to provide enough information and can even be misleading. Psychiatric diagnoses are labels determined by a list of symptoms that are mostly behavioral, meaning, they describe things you’re doing or not doing (like sleeping, or eating). Most diagnoses require a threshold number of symptoms, such as four out of nine. This means a single diagnosis can encompass many – even dozens – of different experiences (American Psychiatric…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Therapy · Tagged: adhd, anxiety, depression, diagnosis, diagnosis limitations, diagnostic labels, emotional healing, identity and diagnosis, mental health diagnosis, mental health stigma, mental health system, mental health understanding, misdiagnosis risk, overpathologizing, personal growth, psychiatrist, psychological growth, psychology, self awareness, symptoms, therapy, therapy education, therapy insights

Do You Have Toxic Parents?

Do You Have Toxic Parents?

September 17, 2021 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Most people describe their childhood as “normal.”  We tend to normalize our own childhood because it’s the only one we had, and we truly want to have a loving relationship with our parents. However, that wish can be so powerful that it clouds our memory and our vision, making it difficult to see our parents clearly and objectively. So, if you are an adult who is depressed or anxious, how do you know if your relationship with your parents has something to do with it? You may or may not have negative memories of your parents from childhood. But how can you tell if your current relationship with them is healthy or “normal”? How would you know if your desire…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Love and relationships, Mens issues, Teenagers and adolescence, Women's issues · Tagged: attachment wounds, boundary setting, breaking generational patterns, childhood trauma, coping skills, dysfunctional family, emotional abuse, emotional regulation, family conflict, healing from childhood trauma, inner child work, mental health, narcissistic parenting, parental manipulation, psychological trauma, toxic parents, trauma healing

Seeking Greater Intimacy? Think About Sex.

Seeking Greater Intimacy? Think About Sex.

May 18, 2017 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Try this experiment: Place your full attention on something  sexual for several minutes and then think about it for a little while. Afterwards, take notice if you seem to be more talkative. New research cited in a recent article by Elizabeth Bernstein says you will be. And, notably, it suggests that you will also be more inclined to reveal aspects of yourself to those with whom you converse. Apparently, thinking about sex motivates us to seek connection with others by making us chattier about ourselves. The cycle of emotional intimacy According to Dr. Birnbaum, the studies’ lead researcher, “Thinking about sex starts a positive cycle of emotional intimacy: When you think about sex and then disclose personal information, the other person likes you more. If the attraction…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Couples & Marriage, Love and relationships, Mens issues, Sex, Women's issues · Tagged: communication, connection, couples therapy, desire, emotional intimacy, intimacy, physical intimacy, relationship satisfaction, sex and relationships, sexual connection

How Therapy Saved Princess Diana’s Son

How Therapy Saved Princess Diana’s Son

May 8, 2017 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

For 20 years Prince Harry, the late Princess Diana’s younger son, tried to ignore the overwhelming emotions he experienced as a result of his mother’s death. Neither heavy partying, nor active military service in Afghanistan could help him contain his feelings. As he describes, “After 20 years of not thinking about it and 2 years of total chaos,” he finally sought therapy. It helped him so much, that he and his family embarked on a campaign to promote therapy in England (#Headstogether). This  video clip briefly recounts his experience.

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How to Talk to Your Teenagers So They’ll Actually Listen and Love You

How to Talk to Your Teenagers So They’ll Actually Listen and Love You

February 16, 2017 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Your child’s brain grows until about age 25. During the teenage years, the brain undergoes vast neurological changes. Parenting teenagers through this storm of dramatic mood swings and behavior shifts may sometimes seem impossible. The good news is you don’t have to be an expert. If you take an active interest in your teen’s mental experience, and seek to understand him with sensitivity and genuine curiosity, you will maintain access to his internal world while contributing to his emotional resilience. Engage, empathize, investigate Perhaps the most important step you can take when you notice distress in your child is to stop what you are doing, give her your full attention, and empathize with her feelings. (This does not require you to agree with the reasons, or even fully understand…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Parenting, Teenagers and adolescence · Tagged: adolescents, mentalizing, parenting, parenting advice, parenting tips, psychology, relationships, teenagers, teens, understanding teenagers

How to Tell if the Man in Your Life is Depressed (and if You Could Be Too)

How to Tell if the Man in Your Life is Depressed (and if You Could Be Too)

September 22, 2016 By Lena Agree JD, PsyD

Do you suspect that a man in your life may be depressed? Unlike women, who are often sad or weepy when depressed, men typically exhibit anger, irritability or complain of “stress.” This is in addition to other depressive symptoms, including loss of interest or pleasure; either sluggishness or agitation; change in sleep, appetite or concentration; feelings of guilt or worthlessness and recurrent thoughts of death. Five or more of these symptoms for 2 consecutive weeks could signal a depressive disorder. However, depressive symptoms aren’t limited to the bouts of moodiness described above. Some people have a “depressive personality,” which can manifest early in life and just kind of “simmer.” There are 2 subtypes of this form of depression: Introjectively depressed people…

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Written by Lena Agree JD, PsyD · Categorized: Anger, Depression, Love and relationships, Mens issues, Therapy · Tagged: depression symptoms, emotional wellbeing, emotional withdrawal, male depression, men’s mental health, mental health signs, mood changes, relationship awareness, relationship concerns

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